What romantically lures
you to the opposite (or same) sex? Is it his/her sense of humor, or
artistic aptitude? Nah… Is it his/her kindness, compassion, personality,
or fondness of children? Nope, nope, nope… Those are the kind of
characteristics that connect you to your friends… Hmm, let’s see now, is
it his/her eyes, smile? Well, Maybe… Is it their lips, washboard abs,
thick thighs? Yeah, yeah, probably. See, now we’re getting somewhere…
If you think about it, you could probably find the same positive traits that you love about your friends in your significant other. But you’re not feelin’ your friends like that, are you? Can’t put your finger on it, but something sets those two relationships apart. What is it?!
Ever
wonder how you can meet a man/woman that is so perfect; Smart, funny,
compassionate, handsome/beautiful, thoughtful, affectionate, everything
you want, but he/she still doesn’t do it for you? You just can’t see
yourself committing to them, but all your friends and relatives are
saying, “What’s wrong with you?! Anybody would kill to have -insert name here-” But to you, it’s like they’re missing something… What is it?!
Well, I’ll tell you what they’re missing: The it factor. ‘It’ is usually something that arouses you (in whatever way) about your gender of preference. Whatever makes you say, “damn!” is your ‘it’
factor. That one little profane word can elevate your friend to your
potential husband/wife in a matter of minutes LOL... My point is, the
only thing that seems to separate a platonic friendship from an intimate
relationship is attraction...
Aggression is what
does it for me. Now, I’m not saying that I want a man that’ll slap my
head up against a wall, but rather one who can take charge of a
situation; a protector. I like men that are dominant and in control,
without being chauvinistic (when it comes to the way he
approaches/handles me.) Don’t know why, but that’s my ‘it’ factor…
What’s yours?
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